Category: Weddings

**Friends! We are sorry it has been a while since we last updated the blog – we have been on tour! We just finished our Pittsburgh, PA leg (with only 1 session rescheduled due to rain out of 3, which isn’t bad for Pittsburgh) and are back in Durham to hustle, hustle and get a lot of work done before our New York leg starts. :) We’re working on editing our last Raleigh wedding from before we left so it will be a couple of days before we post it, so it’s the perfect time to insert Lauren’s fantastic guest post about how she made super badass paper flower bouquets for her wedding party. We loved these things… LOVED THEM. And so we asked her to do a guest post for us to spread the love and knowledge for the rest of you crafty kids, should you be so inclined. Thank you so much, Lauren, for doing this for us! CUE LAUREN!**

Hi all! This is Lauren from the Nick+Lauren wedding and engagement posts. when Carolyn asked me if I would like to write a post about my bridesmaids’ bouquets, I said “Heck yes! doesn’t everyone want to learn how to make paper flower bouquets?” So, I’m bringing a fun little tutorial for all you future brides or generally crafty people. At the end, you’ll have a great origami flower bouquet.

If you want to see more crafting, feel free to check out my blog. I’ve been putting up some other tutorials and such!

These bouquets were an interesting item. My mom was sad because I didn’t want real flowers, plus she doesn’t quite have enough confidence in my ability to craft. I think she really thought they were going to turn out ugly. I proved her wrong. They did not turn out ugly. And want to know something funny? She now wants me to make her one of her own. Ha.

So how do you make these bouquets?

Inspiration

I saw this bouquet from Capitol Romance and and immediately knew I was going to make it for our wedding.  For those of you who have gotten addicted to Pinterest, you’ve seen bouquets like this before. I found lots of helpful instructions for making the flowers. however, when it came to putting together the bouquet, it was definitely a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants moment.

Supplies

  • (1) 4″ styrofoam ball for each bouquet – $2
  • 1 cardboard yarn cone for each bouquet – $0.50
    For those of you that live in the Triangle area of NC, Scrap Exchange in Durham has these for 25 or 50 cents. They are also available on Etsy.
  • acrylic paint – $0.50-1
  • 2 rolls of thin ribbon – $1
  • tacky glue – $2
  • toothpicks or wood dowels  (optional) – $1
  • origami or scrapbook paper – $20

I picked up one of those 12″x12″ scrapbooking paper sets for $20. I used most of it for the 3 bouquets I made.

Total: $27

Tools

  • paint brush
  • ruler
  • scissors or xacto knife
  • paper clips
  • hot glue gun
  • knitting needle (or something sharp to poke holes in the styrofoam ball)

Time

Not gonna lie. These took a long time. Hours upon hours. The folding was, by far, the most time-consuming portion of it all.

Helpful Hints

  • When you start gluing your ribbon to the cone, make sure to overlap the end. When you finish, overlap again.
  • Glue is gonna soak through the ribbon. Don’t worry about it. It’ll dry clear.
  • If you can enlist someone’s help with folding flowers, do it. Bribe them.
  • Another good way to get the folding over with is to find a show on Netflix or Hulu+ to keep you busy. Might I suggest some classics like Arrested Development, MTV’s The Challenge (super classy) or Toddlers and Tiaras (good way to find some additional uses for your glue gun).
  • My bouquets took a total of 37 flowers each and were a mix of 3″ and 4″ folded paper flowers.
  • I found that I needed to use a paper clip to hold both multiple petals together. The Capitol Romance tutorial doesn’t show that.
  • Start placing your flowers from the top of the bouquet and work your way down. If you can’t fit flowers all the way down to the base, no one’s gonna be able to tell.

Directions

  1. Bouquet base: Glue the styrofoam ball to the cone with your glue gun. 
  2. Bouquet base: Paint the styrofoam ball the color of your choice. It’s okay if paint gets on the cone. 
  3. Bouquet base: Put a thin layer of glue around a 1.5″ wide section of the top of the cone and start attaching the ribbon. 
  4. Bouquet base: Repeat until the cone is completely covered in ribbon.
  5. Flowers: Cut paper into 3″ or 4″ squares. You obviously get more out of the paper if you go with 3″ pieces. You need approximately 200 sheets of paper (Keep it in multiples of 5 for 5 petaled flowers, like mine).
  6. Flowers: Fold all of the sheets of paper and glue together. I followed the Capitol Romance directions.
  7. Flowers: Now here’s where I might differ slightly with the directions above. For the larger flowers, I did use toothpicks, but for the smaller flowers, I didn’t. I just glued the petals together. 
  8. Finishing: Use a small knitting needle or something similar to poke a hole in the styrofoam ball. 
  9. Put some hot glue on the toothpick of the first flower and stick it in the hole. 
  10. Repeat for 2-3 larger flowers.
  11. Start filling in with smaller flowers. For these, I just put some hot glue on the bottom and then glued 2-3 petals to the surrounding large flowers.
  12. Voila! A bouquet that will never die!

Final Product

Check out origami boutonnieres on my blog! http://prettyingmylife.wordpress.com/

I (Carolyn) would like to take a moment to puff up my chest a second here and claim responsibility for putting these two together. I really didn’t… I guess… but I kind of did! So I’m claiming it. I first met Stephanie in super early 2012 when she hired me to take portraits of her for her website. We don’t usually take work like this, but I kinda fell in love with her humor and attitude and took her on, we took awesome pictures, the end. Only it wasn’t the end! She also used those pictures on her online dating profile… and Matt saw them. :) SO I’M TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS, RIGHT!? Right!! :)

Matt saw them, also met her, and also presumably fell in love with her humor and attitude. Only instead of taking her on for a portrait session, he proposed, they got married at Marbles, and here we were a little while later shooting their wedding. :) There was a brief period of getting ready, a brief ceremony, brief portraits, then a whole lotta reception with… wait for it… wait for it… breakfast for dinner. This, my dear readers, was the best thing I’ve ever heard of in terms of food at a reception. The even better part is that there were celiacs in her family so there were gluten-free pancakes for us!! Gluten-free pancakes with freakin’ Reese’s Pieces in them! And bacon! And omelets! And cranberry juice! I never write about (or blog pictures of) the food at weddings but I had to for this one because this was the best thing I’d ever seen and some of you pondering what to eat for next year should probably take notes because who doesn’t love breakfast? Evil people, that’s who.

Anyway – we were so honored to be asked to do this wedding. It’s really cool when you photograph someone and they keep bringing you back. :) We met Matt at the wedding and LOVED HIM. Almost as much as the Reese’s Pieces in our gluten-free pancakes. Well, maybe more. ;) He treats Stephanie like gold and you can see that he really loves her. They’re adorable together and we had an awesome time at their wedding. Congratulations, you two, and don’t forget what pictures started all this. ;) :P

Date: June 8, 2013

Ceremony and Reception Venue: Marbles Kids Museum // Raleigh, NC

First Dance Song: “Somewhere Beyond the Sea” – Frank Sinatra

How You Met: Online at OKCupid.com

Interesting Bride Fact: Fierce competitor and once ROBBED of $20 by the Plinko machine at Frankie’s!

Interesting Groom Fact: Foremost expert of the heel-toe downshift, which the bride finds utterly sexy in action.

Honeymoon Destination: Cruise boating to Alaska! Then living it up on the Columbia Gorge!

Vendor Credits: Officiant – Ingrid Weber Sagula | DJ – Ken Holmes | Florist – Purple Poppy | Cake – Blue Moon | Caterer – Rocky Top Hospitality | Hair/Makeup – Makeup For Your Day

Our first e-mail from Melanie said, “Two girls getting married in Durham seek cool, laid-back, easy-going, ridiculously talented photographers to capture every detail of this illegal venture on June 7, 2013 at Duke Gardens. Two wedding dresses, two mothers of the bride, two step dads, one dad, two maids of honor, zero bridesmaids and one awesome party. We met at a white trash party, Nicole took Mel’s stitches out after ACL surgery and impressively told the surgeon “I got this.” A year later Mel saw Nicole doing Soulja Boy moves on the dance floor and knew she needed to get to know this girl better. So she did. We are celebrating the fifth anniversary of our first date on 12/12/12. Mel asked Nicole to marry her on Labor Day and gave her a ring. A month later Nicole asked Mel to marry her back and gave HER a ring. Because you can do cool stuff like that when you are two girls.” For reference – Melanie is in the pink dress, Nicole is in the ivory dress.

We loved them instantly. Then they came over to our house and Nicole wore this sweater. At that moment, we may or may not have begged them to let us shoot their wedding. They agreed. Then all went out to see Jurassic Park in 3D. They screamed really loud when the velociraptor attacked. Then we photographed their “gay and awesome” wedding ceremony (our first gay wedding!). And then went out two days later to see Iron Man (not in 3D… and no screaming this time). We found out that the paths behind our houses connect so they’re going to be seeing a lot more of us (provided they like their pictures) so that we can visit their elderly cat named Syd (see below) whom Carolyn befriended at the wedding.

Besides it being the first gay wedding we’ve photographed, it was also the biggest wedding heist we’ve EVER seen pulled off in the history of our career. I’d use this blog to lecture all of you ladies out there who are afraid of the rain on your wedding day, but I’m kind of sure that the pictures speak for themselves. Red/orange radar from a tropical storm and two brides who didn’t care at all but who were determined to take pictures outdoors come hell or high water (quite literally very high). We were soaked (and changed our clothes before the ceremony; Carolyn blow-dried her shoes in their bathroom) but the girls stayed relatively dry thanks to umbrellas… and this should prove to ALL of you that it’s better to dance in the rain than to have indoor pictures. Anyway – it was wet. The ground was flooded. Duke Gardens wouldn’t put out chairs because they would destroy the extremely saturated grass. But Melanie and Nicole are like the honey badgers of the bride world and had their wedding outside anyway with standing guests. The sun came out one hour prior to ceremony time. It was amazing and totally unreal. Their pictures after the ceremony at Duke Gardens are a sunny day. One of their guests asked us the evening before what’s the craziest thing we’ve ever seen at a wedding – and now we have an answer. :)

Date: June 7, 2013

Ceremony and Reception Venue: Duke Gardens // Durham, NC

First Dance Song: “I Remember” – Whitley

Melanie’s Occupation: Healthcare Market Consultant

Nicole’s Occupation: Physician Assistant

How You Met: A sequence of events that included a white trash party, stitches, and dancing the Soulja Boy.

Interesting Melanie Fact: Had ancestors on the Mayflower, can be spotted as an extra in the movie Whip It, and can’t fold a fitted sheet to save her life.

Interesting Nicole Fact: Swam with sharks and touched the Pope, though not at the same time.

Honeymoon Destination: Italy next year! We hope.

Vendor Credits: Officiant – Antoinette Polito (friend) | DJ – All the Right Grooves | Florist – Melanie and Nicole and Whole Foods :-) | Cake – Durham Catering Co | Caterer – Durham Catering Co | Hair/Makeup – Angela Goldman, owner, A Go-Go Salon | Coordinator – Nicole Conder, Premier Party Planning